Love Made Simple

What have you done for love?

Are you like many men and women -- single or married -- who twist and turn themselves inside out trying to match what they think love is SUPPOSED TO BE?

That great SUPPOSED TO BE -- that's supposed to exist out there somewhere -

that everybody chases but no one seems to find.

That great SUPPOSED TO BE -- that's supposed to bring you happiness for a lifetime -

but causes too many men and women to end up whispering - "Is this all there is?"

That great SUPPOSED TO BE -- that you know - you just know - that if you ever got it - everything would be okay.

You tell yourself that's what you really believe . . . REALLY . . .

Except . . . in the shadows of the night . . .

When you wonder if that's all just an illusion . . . a story you tell yourself to get by.

Is love supposed to be so complicated?

That's what soap operas sell.

Complexity. Drama. Intrigue. Tension. The more twists and turns the better . . .

Sadly that's what many men and women believe love is and should be.

They live their lives as soap operas and, just like in the soaps, love is usually the source of most of their pain.

Is that how it is for you?

Is your experience of love a gnarly maze of feelings and thoughts, held together by hopes and wishes?

Or is love something other people have but not you?

"I'm in a pretty good marriage," you say, "and this all sounds so extreme."

Sure, it may sound that way to you . . .

But what about those moments when you and your partner crash into blind spots . . .

Out in the wilderness of your relationship where you haven't got things worked out yet . . .

Something you haven't been paying attention to erupts. Like a volcano. And you're left with a tangled mess you need to unravel.

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