Just What Can A Professional Salesman Teach You In Your Relationship
You may not know this, but do you know that whatever it is that you hold a strong belief on - whether you realize it or not, whether consciously or subconscoiusly - how your environment will be, how people will react and respond to you, will exactly be THAT which will support what YOU believe to be true?
As within, so without.
If you are always having conflicts, disagreements, and fights with the love of your life, and you keep wondering why you have to face such a difficult sitaution in your love life or relationship, there is a reason for all these happening!
Stop Being So Defensive
I rarely admit this (and frankly, I wonder why I'm doing it now), but I am a very defensive person. I can be quick to feel challenged or threatened by perceived criticism. When that happens, my typical responses range from somewhat testy to downright hostile. It's not an attractive quality. I'm not proud.
I have wanted to do something about it for a long time, but I figured that in order to stop being so defensive, I'd have to do something drastic, like stop caring about what other people think. That sounds great, but it's an awfully tall order for most of us, and not a realistic option for me.
Thanks to a recent set of studies of defensiveness, I now have a far more practical strategy for dealing with my defensive tendencies. When I suspect criticism may be coming my way (for instance, when I send my editor a new chapter for feedback, or when my husband comes home from work to find that I've redecorated the bedroom), I take a moment to reflect on something I really like about myself.
What to Do After An Affair - Part II of II Part SeriesWhat happens when one partner learns that their partner has cheated? The most crucial step after a cheating incident has occurred is considering health concerns. The reason is that in addition to deeply hurting one's partner, the partner has now been exposed to the potential of a life threatening disease such as AIDS.
Even if a condom was used, there are no guarantees of complete safety. In fact, some STD's go on without detection. One such STD is the Human Papillomavirus, more commonly known as "genital warts."
The U.S. Dept. of Health stated the following: "Human Papillomavirus (HPV) is one of the most common causes of sexually transmitted infection (STI) in the world. Many people infected with HPV have no symptoms.