Should You Have Sex On The First Date?
Unless you have religious or other strong personal convictions that prevent it, sex is part of most romantic relationships. However we're not going to get into any of that here - all we're concerned with is whether it's a good idea or not to sleep with somebody on the first, or even second date.
And unless sex is all you want from your date, the answer is a resounding no! In fact, we think it's a very bad idea even to talk about it on the first date, let alone hint that you might quite like it.
So stay vertical, keep your pants on and concentrate on getting to know each other first.
The Two Types of Men: Mr. Fabulous vs. Mr. Strong (Steady)
Here's a really simplistic way to evaluate men. Let's just put men into two categories. One group of men we'll call fabulous and the other will be those that are strong (steady).
Realize with all things, this isn't to say that there are men who are entirely fabulous or that there are men who are only strong and steady. Usually a ratio of 60-40 is a good measurement. These are going to be their predominant way of relating to you and relating to the world around them.
Fabulous men are those who tend to go more up and down with their moods. When they are feeling energized and they are feeling good about themselves, they can be very exciting and they can also be very intimate and very quiet and very focused.
The Eyes Have It
Remember the dreamy eyes of your first love? Who can resist a beautiful set of eyes? Your eyes are one of your most important features. Do you treat them like the treasures they are? Even if your eyes are not 'to die for', you can make them truly memorable.
Eye Care. Do you care for them the way you should?
Sunscreen on your lids? Sunglasses? Carefully cleaned and stored contact lenses? Makeup remover made expressly for eyes? Adequate sleep? These aren't merely suggestions. They're requirements for stunning eyes.